Getting over a tough phase sometimes requires help; either be the help or get the partner professional help. The person might never leave his comfort zone nor accommodate the partner into it. While they accept the problems, they should be motivated enough to solve it," Priya adds. EU individuals would never be beside their partners in times of need and might even leave them on their own when they require a support system. The more the person tries to hide matters from the spouse, the worse the relationship becomes," she says.
"These people speak about equality, but at home, place themselves on a higher pedestal and consider their spouse as a slave."A person might not have been in a relationship before; so while entering marital life, they might not be aware of how to accommodate another person in their life.Emotional unavailability, which can be mistaken for a character trait, is a condition that breaks many marriages.‘We are strangers living under the same roof’ – how many times have you heard/said these words about married life from/to a close friend? Married life isn’t easy, but when one starts feeling that their spouse is never available for him/her, there’s something else troubling the relationship. "When one shows emotional disconnect, it is the partner who suffers. Priya Varghese, consultant clinical psychologist at Pushpagiri Medical College Hospital, Thiruvalla, explains, "Men are widely believed to be stingy with expressing love, but how does the other person know that he loves his partner unless he expresses it in some way or another? Who can read the mind? Women mostly express their love and want it to be reciprocated the same way. "Counselling is very important, especially pre-martial counselling.